I swear, there is no place on this Earth quite as magical as Bali. I think Elizabeth Gilbert would agree with me. I know I can’t actually say that in true confidence without any bias, as I have barely scratched the surface when it comes to our big, wide, beautiful planet. But after spending an entire month in this paradise, my love for Bali is pretty immense. Where to even begin? It’s a small island but that’s what makes it so charming. You can hop from place to place via motorbike relatively easily and then pick your favorite spots to chill out at, which is exactly what we did for one entire blissful month.
Our first stop was Ubud, the biggest city in Bali. Ubud is located in the heart of the most gorgeous, green, luscious forests you can even imagine. I absolutely adored Ubud. There’s no way to describe its beauty and do it justice, you just have to see it for yourself. The rice fields, the colorful markets, the temples, the sunsets, the coffee, the monkeys, the mountains, the rain forests, and most importantly, the people. The people of Ubud were so lovely and welcoming. One of the major differences I’ve been seeing in Indonesia compared to Thailand is that mostly everyone speaks English in Bali because tourism is much more developed here, so it’s a lot easier to communicate with the locals and carry on a conversation. The first place we booked was a hostel, but after just one night there, we decided that we were officially over the hostel life. That lasted long, right? In my opinion, it takes a certain personality to be able to comfortably enjoy staying in a hostel. Sure, you save a ton of money, and (usually) you get to meet a bunch of cool, like-minded travelers. But after spending one night cramped in an uncomfortable squeaky, creaky bed, in a damp, dirty, booze-infested dorm room, shared with 4 smelly boys who talked in their sleep, we collectively decided we would spend a few extra dollars and stick with private villas for the rest of our trip. Best decision we’ve ever made. We went from spending $8-10 a night for a bed in a nasty hostel to spending $15 a night for an entire villa all to ourselves. A few extra dollars well spent. After leaving that hostel, we stayed with a local Balinese family that we booked through Air B&B (which I highly recommend if you’re traveling Bali- especially in a group!) in a gorgeous place set back in the middle of a rice field. We had the entire house to ourselves- so as you can imagine, several dance parties ensued. Or at least I danced, and the rest of the girls watched on in horror/embarrassment/disbelief. Our host was a kind, hard working Balinese man, who was very eager to make sure we had the best time possible. He arranged everything for us, from motorbikes to rent and restaurants to try, to transportation to our sunrise hike, he took really great care of us. My favorite part about this stay was definitely the sunrise hike up Mount Batur. We groggily awoke at 2:30 in the morning and headed north to the mountains. Mount Batur is an active volcano, so that was equal parts terrifying and awesome. We followed our very sweet guide up the almost vertical slope, each holding a small flashlight for guidance. He told us that he works on the mountain before school everyday, waking up in the early morning hours and leading groups up the steep terrain. Every morning. And then he goes to school. When he noted the shock in the tones of our voices, he simply replied, “It’s okay! I stay in great shape!” Talk about a positive outlook on life! Climbing up that mountain produced a feeling for me that I really don’t think I can describe. The air was so fresh and crisp, and even though I felt sweaty and tired and incredibly out of shape, as we ascended up that mountain, my senses had never felt more activated and I had never felt more alive. Something about hiking up a slope in the pitch blackness, not able to see what’s above you or beneath you until the sun comes up, yet still imagining a scenery so beautiful; it was exhilarating. About two hours and over 1,500 meters later (comparable to the hike to the summit of Mount Washington!), we finally surpassed the clouds and actually sat inside them, waiting for the sun to rise. While we waited, we had eggs cooked for us using only the hot rocks of the volcano, fruit, and Balinese coffee as we huddled together trying to stay warm in the mist of the clouds. Finally, the sun began to peak through and light up the sky completely. It was unbelievable to see the sun unveiling a whole world below us, one that had been entirely invisible during our hike up mountain. A crystal blue lake appeared below surrounded by miles of mountains and rice fields far off in the distance. Once again, the planet that we call home continues to leave me speechless.
Our next stop was the beloved Canggu, our favorite place in all of Bali. Canggu is a trendy little surf town on the coast, absolutely littered with organic cafes, restaurants, beautiful Australian surfers, and cute boutiques. The food in Bali was just….out of this world. I could go on forever about it, I really could. Our favorite restaurants featured fresh organic goodies, like poke bowls, dragonfruit smoothies, Nasi Goreng, roti wraps, fresh kombucha, chia pudding, and the most delicious espresso I’ve ever had the pleasure of tasting. We spent our days waking up at whatever time we felt like it, eating, drinking, swimming, shopping, writing, laughing, surfing (attempting to at least) and collecting, usually seashells and/or memories. From Canggu we hopped to Uluwatu and did more of the same, lathering ourselves in coconut oil and soaking up the sun and ending each day watching the surfers from the high cliffs of Single Fin.
I know it sounds like absolutely nothing went wrong in Indonesia, and everything was paradise and safe and perfect all month long. That is mostly true, honestly it really is. But to be fair, I think I also need to disclose some of the problems with Indonesia, as no country is perfect, that’s for sure. I already blogged about this, so I don’t want to harp on it too much again, but the horses. The horses in Indonesia are severely overworked and severely mistreated, not just in Gili, but in Jakarta and Bali and pretty much every city throughout Indonesia. And the dogs, and the cats, and all the other animals that get left behind. There are so many stray animals that fill the streets, alleys, and beaches of Bali; they are sick and underweight, with matted, mangy coats, and usually they are in really bad shape. It’s hard to see this kind of abuse when you’re traveling and trying to have the best time possible, because it really does affect you, or at least it should. It had a major affect on my entire mood and it gutted me to the core seeing these animals suffering.
Police corruption. Another really sad and dangerous part about Indonesia in general. There was one instance when the girls and I were riding our motorbikes when we were flagged down and told to pull over by a police officer in uniform. We’d read the research and heard the stories about police corruption in Bali, but until it happens to you, it’s kind of out of sight out of mind. So we stopped, we complied as much as we could given the language barrier, and we got harassed. He took all of our American licenses hostage and told us that since we didn’t have international licenses (which no one ever does in Bali) we would have to pay 500,000 Rupiah each, which is the equivalent of $40 USD. It doesn’t seem like a lot, I know, but $40 goes pretty far in Indonesia, and it was just the principal of it; he was trying to rip us off. He told us we could either pay him the money upfront now, or he could write us an official ticket and we would have to go to Denpasar (a good distance away) and pay it there. We knew we didn’t want to go all the way to Denpasar and legitimately pay the fine through the courts, but we also didn’t want this dirty cop to make all of this money off of us. Luckily Claire wasn’t buying it, literally, and she told him we would pay him half of that amount if we could just get our licenses back and go home. He agreed, and sketchily brought Claire behind a parked truck to pay him, so that no one could see what he was doing and report him. It all happened so fast, and it was scary, I’m not going to lie. It’s scary being in a foreign country, with a language barrier, with a lack of knowledge about your rights and their laws. In retrospect, I wish we had gotten his name, his information, and reported him properly, so that something like that wouldn’t happen again to someone else. But realistically, the report probably never would have even made it to the courts, and it will happen again to someone else regardless of what we try to do about it, because the system is broken.
The drugs. Drugs are definitely present in Bali, but realistically they’re present everywhere. You have to be careful anywhere you go, even in the United States. Our next stop in Bali was Kuta, a city that we had heard many mixed reviews of (most of the negative reviews were in regards to the party scene and drugs) but we decided to check it our for ourselves anyways. We spent one night in this city, this touristy, dodgy, tacky city, and in retrospect, we wish we had never even gone there at all. Upon our arrival, we met these two very sweet Italian guys at the beach and decided we would all go to this bar called the Sky Garden for an all you can eat (and drink) buffet. The night started out great, the music was fun and the food was delicious. But after only a few drinks at the bar, I noticed one of my friends was missing, and had been missing for a few minutes now. Naturally I checked the bathroom first, assuming she had gone in there and was maybe checking her phone or fixing her make up. But what I walked into was one of my best friends in the world with her head in the sink, vomiting uncontrollably. I immediately rushed over to her and tried to gauge what was going on, but she was completely incoherent. I’ve known her for many years now, and I have never, ever seen her in this state, so I knew this was serious. She didn’t just have too much to drink, she had been slipped something. Panicked and worried, I cleaned her up as best I could and brought her outside to tell the others that we needed to get her home immediately. The Italians and the rest of our crew immediately rushed over to help but I told them to go down and get a taxi and that we would meet them out front. I gave both our purses and cell phones to the other girls, and I put my friend on my back and carried her down the three flights of stairs. Finally, I got her out to the street where I sat her down and tried to keep her upright. I turned around to search for the other girls and realized they were gone. We had somehow gotten separated, later realizing that they went out the other entrance to the other side of the building accidentally, and now I was on my own with no phone, no money, and no idea how I was going to help my friend. As I sat on the sidewalk holding her, trying to ward off the drunk people in her face just “trying to help”, three women came over with water and sat next to us. “We’re American, we live in Bali, we work with the Women of Kuta Against Rape and Violence organization and we’re here to help you and your friend. This happens frequently here. What happened?” They were a godsend, actual real live angels, they really were. I burst into tears, explaining that I thought she must have been slipped something, as I had been with her all night and she hadn’t had that much to drink. I hysterically explained that I had no money to get a taxi, and without my phone for directions, I had no idea where our hotel was in relation to this bar. They calmed me down, loaded us into their car, and without complaint, they drove us all around Kuta until finally the landmarks surrounding our hotel became familiar enough that I knew where I was. They helped me carry her inside, and told me what to watch for and numbers to call if she got worse or became unresponsive. Thank god, she didn’t, and aside from feeling absolutely terrible in the morning, she was okay. I woke up the next morning feeling angry, so angry that something like this happened to someone I love. But I also woke up thankful, thankful that nothing worse occurred. The whole ordeal, among the aforementioned ordeals, kind of put me back on me toes and reminded me that sometimes these beautiful, picturesque places aren’t safe. Sometimes bad things happen. Sometimes you see things that really destroy your soul. But part of traveling is seeing things that break your heart. And you know what, that’s okay. We need to see these kinds of things, and we need to see that corruption and crime and suffering is widespread across the world, and sadly, it’s much worse in some places than in others. It’s important to see that even in a paradise destination, bad things happen. And more often than not, there’s not a damn thing you can do about it. That’s a hard realization that I had to face throughout my 8 months of travelling. I’ve been told that sometimes when you’re travelling, you can’t see things with your heart, because it will destroy you. You have to travel with your head and your eyes and see the world for what it is. And sometimes, it’s a bad place. It’s a really bad place. But you see this hardship and you see this suffering and even if you can’t do much to help in that moment, it can light a fire in you. It did for me. And that’s what traveling is all about. Go see the world, let it break your heart, let it change your views and your perspectives, and then come home and use what you’ve seen and what you’ve learned to make a difference in any way that you can.
Sooooo in conclusion, Bali, baby. Bali was the best. So many beautiful places and spaces and people. I’m grateful for every moment spent in Bali, even the bad ones. And I’m grateful for the people we met along the way there. We met some really freaking awesome people. The young couple in Canggu who opened their beautiful villa to us and treated us like family for an entire week, the surfers who took us out and gave us free lessons just because, the beautifully sweet and genuine brother and sister we met from California, our driver Gusti, and his son Gusti 2.0, who drove us all over Bali whenever we needed them, and every shop owner, server, Air B&B host, random person on the street, they were all just wonderful. If there’s one thing I’ve learned being abroad, it’s that every corner of this world is filled with incredibly good people and no matter what country you’re in, you will always find people who light up your world.
Backpacking for two months with three girls who I now consider my very best friends, was truly an experience that I will cherish for the rest of my life. Living out of a backpack wasn’t always easy. Having to dig through my bag blindly every day in an attempt to find a new, clean outfit (when realistically I would eventually just give up and revert back to the salty, sandy, sweaty dress I had been wearing for the last three days) wasn’t easy. It wasn’t easy getting sick and it wasn’t easy getting a handle on the different money conversions and it wasn’t always easy making group decisions. But these experiences, even the tough ones, especially the tough ones, and these friendships have made my heart and my mind grow and grow and grow and I will be eternally grateful for these girls and this world.